TJ is 55 and born on April 5, 1963. He always says he is younger than his actual age. He frequents dating sites “POF”, Match.com, blackpeople meet, etc and also gyms in Orange County CA. He is a trainer and drives a white Dodge Sprinter Van and a black hummer with personalized plate”4MUSCLE”. He appears to be a funny sweet nice devoted guy at first who dotes on you and seems faithful. He will not flirt in front of you with another girl so you think he’s totally devoted to you and the marriage/family type but that is not the truth. He will cheat on you behind your back with multiple women and lie to you and play you against the other woman lying to you both and making you hate each other because he makes you believe the other woman is crazy and lying because she was rejected by you. TJ does not wear protection during sex so he is exploiting you sexually. He has a fetish that he forces on woman even when you say no and he will hold you down and tell you to take it cuz your his baby and to kiss him because he f****** loves you all the while he is hurting you and won’t stop. Then he says ” oh you are so f****** sexy” while you are upset. He promises never to do it again but does. He also promises to love you for life and says he wants to marry you and that you are the only woman for him, the only woman he’s ever loved and the only woman who can satisfy him and that is why he comes home to you but he is deceiving you behind your back even when he says he is working long hours or traveling for work. He is really with other women. He says he works from 5am and gets home at 1130pm but don’t believe him ladies. He leaves at 930am and returns at 830pm. He will blow off his clients to go meet with other women for sex while you think he is working. He will say the girls that send pics to him on his phone are his clients wanting him to analyze them for a fitness show which is not true and he won’t answer his phone in front of you and says its just his clients or an unknown caller. He keeps his phone in a case so you can’t see. He will call other women from your house in the bathroom with a low voice or goes outside or offers to go out and pick up food for you and that’s when he calls other women. He has a very hostile side to him aside from the charm. He will cuss you out and tell you to f*** off and then say he doesn’t mean it and that he loves you but you just made him so mad. When he is caught cheating or in a lie he will continually elaborately lie until he convinces you otherwise. He is a very good liar and has no remorse for the women or families he hurts. He has no conscious and will talk about past woman calling them crazy lying b****** and hoe’s. He has no respect for women. He lies and says women always want to f*** him or touch his muscles when the truth is he is the predator. Watch out for this guy. Trust your gut instincts. He will tell you he’s renting a room and can’t have company because those are the house rules so that he can cheat with multiple women and you can’t be in his space to see how he’s living. He will tell you he has IRS problems to delay you from expecting marriage even though he is professing his love and promising this falsely. He will take years of your life as he stays with women for a long time simultaneously cheating and you will never know the entire time. He has a sex addiction, likes porn and clears the history on computers. He also tries to move in with woman and keeps one place as a home base while he cheats on her with many and tells other’s he is renting a room and can’t have visitors. BEWARE this man is pathological!!!!! He’s a Narcissistic Sociopath. RUN RUN RUN or he will break your heart and tear you apart.