This is one sociopath I feel obligated to warn all women about. I have worked with him for over 4 years – just at a different location. In June he finally disclosed how he has wanted to be with me for many years, but out of respect of my earlier long term relationship, he didn’t share that with me. He knows just the right things to say. He will tell you he is in the Military and is about to retire as an E8. FALSE! He will tell you he has full custody of both children and their mother’s are deadbeats. FALSE! His daughter lives with the step-mother and the son – he hasn’t seen but once I think in the last year! He will tell you he has cancer. He told one girl in February he had stomach cancer. He told me in June that he had lung cancer. He just on 9/30/13 told his boss he has testicular cancer. FALSE!! FALSE!! FALSE!! He would come to church with me…my church family was praying over his non-existent cancer. Many of my friends have cancer or are survivors…they take cancer very seriously and we were all praying over him. HOW LOW CAN ONE PERSON GET FOR ATTN?!?! He was engaged to one girl he works with at our main office, living PT with her and due to be married this weekend (10/5/13), yet was actively still living with his wife until the last couple of weeks also. He was able to do this because he shared time in both houses by saying he was working OT. His fiancé found out about the WIFE and the G/F when he left his phone at her house accidentally….she kicked him out and then found out about me. I wish I had someone warn me that this man was anything but who he portrayed himself to be. It took me THREE months to learn any of this about him….and the stories are still flooding in. He does not learn from experience, he has no sense of responsibility, he is unable to control impulses, he lacks moral sense, he lacks any and all guilt and displays an extreme amount of self-centeredness.