Flat out Mea Whitmore and I were involved and I needed a bit of a break because pretty much she would get violent and break things. let me make this as clear as I can. I was not perfect I had my fualts. Before our Break I started going to theropy to make changes in my behavior. I wasn’t violent or had a bad attitude. I lied about petty things. While on our break I always maintained contact with Mea. We would talk and text and tell one another and express that we missed one another. Mea got into a situation with her brother whom she was staying with and decided to leave. I personally that enough time had past and I told her to come back. She didn’t want to because I lived with a roomate and also I moved my grandparents in to because they raised me and because their home was forclosed because they couldn’t afford it. Mea had been told me that she was going to look for her own place to stay while in Texas. While I has on the search to find us a house so she could return back to Cali. Mea isn’t when faced with a life challenge’s doesn’t completely do the right thing. When Mea left her brothers she some how lost her bank card. So I had been sending her money for Food and for others. Mean while she had told me within a few days of being at a hotel that she met a guy that was gonna allow her to move in his place. Of course this was the first sign of a red flag. U see Mea will do sleep with a guy or apparently get with a guy if it means that she won’t personally have to completely care for her self. She believes she needs help. Mea then told that the guy only agreed to allow her to stay for with him for a small amount of time. So I was scambling looking for a house for us and I ended up finding one. I text Mea before I went to bed I sent her a picture letting her know I was lonely and I missed her. I also texted a message stating I believed something was wrong. When I talked to her a couple before I sent her that text I felt a very different energy from her. Fast forward to the morning after I sent her a text letting her know about the house and send her a picture text letting her know I missed a guy calls me. He asks me why am I texting his woman. I had only been sleep for an hour in a half before even getting that call from working that night early in the a.m I thought it was maybe someone from work or perhaps one of my friends playing a trick at first. The phone call hangs up. I call the number back I see it was Mea. I think to myself what’s going on. Then I call back she’s yelling at me like I did something. She’s telling me to speak up and answer this guy who I don’t know. I’m trying to sort things out. She hangs up. I call back. I then start asking questions. Then I’m hit with the guy telling me Mea is pregnant with his child. Mean while I while I’m talking to the guy I let him I had no clue you and her where with one another she told me that you were nothing more then a roomate and that she had been trying to find a place for her self. Mean while I can hear her manipulating more then likely to cover her tracks of lying in order for me to perhaps send her money. While she was with this guys lying to both of us but u can tell this isn’t a dude that cares. I asked why she was lying. Why she would do this to me and why tell me that she’d come back if I got us a place and all that. She then try to maintain that she told when we decided to have a break that she wasn’t coming back once she left. Since I want to insure I’m 100% honest in this. I want to say this. She did indeed say that however things changed when left her brother and tried to move to Vegas to stay with a friend and her friend didn’t end up sending for her. That was when we talked about her coming back. Doing some digging in Mea life before me I found that she had been on Back Page before and I’m aware now that she has more had sex for money. The kicker for me was when I was texting Mea when she had purposely set me up to waking up to the drama she created she sends me a video of her and this guy having sex. How low is that? Like I had done something to her. As far as I knew we were in a good place. We would talk and text and things were okay. I’m the type of person that if she told me she had a boy friend I would have respectfully fallen back and only been a friend. I was cheated on before my ex before Mea so I know the kind of hurt that creates for anyone. But my thing is this. Why lie. I would ask her repeatedly if she was only roomates with whom ever she was staying with or if she was seeing anyone she’d always tell me no. I tell her things like I don’t want to ever give the impression that I’m a man whose disrespectful. She tell no im trying to find my own place. Mean while she knew I was house hunting and sending her money then I get a call from a guy asking me why I’m texting his woman and in the background clear as day u hear her voice speak up answer the question. Crazy right! Then they send me a video of them having sex. Stay Clear of Mea Whitmore. I’m going to have to change my locks after this post becouse I never took my key from her when we went on our break. She’s got a history of violence and destructive behavior. I’m glad this happened. Because I see her true nature. It’s pethic she left her brother and literally hooked up with a guy I know for sure she still doesn’t really know to well all because she her pride wouldn’t allow her to go back to her brothers and because she rather shack up with a dude because of her fear to work a job and fend for her self. Mea was looking for a guy so she wouldn’t have to fully be responsible for her self. This just happened she has only been in Texas for few months and pretty has only known this guy I’m sure for maybe a little over a month. When the guy finds out how crazy she is I feel sorry for him. Trust me he will find out what he’s dealing with on for her Karma has a funny way of paying ppl back. God see’s all.