What can I say? We started out trying to spend every moment together… From day one I asked him if he wanted to keep things Fwb or monogamous …..he chose monogamous (for me I guess). Anyway, dozens of online hookups, hookers, texts, and co-workers of all ages and sizes later I am here kicking myself for thinking he could have just been honest and it would have been fine. I am humiliated. He has at least 3 or 4 other women that happily take my place if I’m not available or if I’m busy. He swears he only loves me and uses them for sex. Well, the shitty part is – I get lame sloppy seconds and that sucks. So- there you go he uses many different ID’s and emails and lies about his age so be warned I wish someone had warned me.