Had an affair for the better part of past 2 years. Asked for divorce 3 times. Wife’s replies:embarrassment on losing another, alluded to suicide, and keep grandchildren from him forever. This last one did the trick. So seeing that good old do the right thing Bob and because it is easier to just give in and stay, gave up on the affair.Finally after over 23 years Carolyn has changed spots and being a wife. Cleaning the house, cooks something other than boxed, taken interest in him other than paychecks n boilermaker benefits, trying to be decent to others and performing wifely duties!!!!Good luck to them both and those new spots. Or just until he retires, (as she first suggested) and she’s positive she can bleed him of everything she feels she’s due from her meal ticket.