If you meet a guy named John Smalcer on POF or any dating site (Cleveland Ohio) here are a few things you will need to know :He’s an ex con with federal convictionsHe is a domestic abuser with a rap sheet throughout cuyahoga county.He does not work EVER.He is not DDFYou will need to put a padlock on your bank account.You CAN NOT put a padlock on his p**** (he uses it in different people daily.He gave up legal custody of his children to avoid paying child support.He will cyber stalk and destroy your career and character if you try to break up with him.He can not tell the truth.He does not feel love, compassion or empathy , he is a sociopath and can’t help that.Ladies you can help yourself though – don’t let this piece of filth do to you what he did to me. It almost ruined my children and family