Without prompting, because I didn’t want to know, he told me he had only been with three people in his entire life – his ex-wife, a long term girlfriend who was a long-distance relationship (according to him anyways), and a friend that things went too far one night. I was supposedly his fourth (again, not that it matters but just showing how he lies). Turns out, he is actually a swinger and has sex with multiple women at the same time. Very manipulative too. We ended things because he claimed he had to work late to lay people off. My gut just went crazy and I thought it was a lie, so his response was that I was selfish and that I was more concerned about whether it was a lie or not when I should be concerned about the poor people who were about to lose their job. Found out from another girl – he told her the SAME lie! Before I found out all this, we started hanging out again in the spring/summer of 2015, going to lunch, etc. During this time I asked if he was dating anyone, he said no. He mentioned some trip to Europe he was taking by himself – and this is where it gets bizarre – because there was NO reason to go into this much detail when it wasn’t true – that during this trip he said he was taking the train to different stops and he was going to have a friend FedEx him his clothes to account for the weather differences. We were supposed to hang out on Father’s Day 2015, but he said his kids arranged for a “friend of the family” to drop off tickets for a baseball game. Fast forward to January 2016 and I find out about the swinger stuff. I also see he has a very active swinger account. Then I see while he was supposed to be in Europe, he was in the Bahamas with his girlfriend. Yup. All while denying to me he was dating anyone. AND I saw a picture of him with his girlfriend with her children on Father’s Day 2015 – at a baseball game! There are also stuff about STDs mixed in with all of this as well. I know if I was serious enough with a man to bring my children around him and going on cruises with him and he was denying me – I would be LIVID and have a right to know. Not to mention the swinger stuff.Luckily I have all of this documented, so if anyone reading this happens to know her, please let her know.