We have been married too long for this to be real. I know he has a wandering eye, I can tell the way he acts, he gets all stupid. Now it is serious and this mentally ill floozy has manipulated him. I know it is him too . Two years of cheating and he accuses me of being mean to her Do I stay or do I go. I say i love him, I think it is more I hate to start again. He doesn’t love me but is nice enough. The other person gets the fun. He is a cheating bastard, Do I stay? Can I get the courage to move it all out one day? I cannot get at all the money he is smart,.I am so angry and so bored. I have tried to get rid of her, now I don’t think that will change things, another will come along.