I had been dating a girl, Abby Leiter, for 10 months and had just got engaged to her and gave her a $2500 ring a week before I went to AZ to work (in order to make a better life for us) for 2 weeks from 3/26/17- 4/8/17. The whole time I was gone she called and texted me telling me how much she loved me and missed me. The Sat I got back she called me to let me know that she was going to NC to visit her aunt Djarma and her grandfather who lived down there and that she’d be back on Tues. She, as usual, told me how much she loved me and couldn’t wait to see me on Tues. My 94 yr old grandmother ended up in the ICU after falling and breaking her collar bone that Mon night. Abby and I talked over the phone where she told me to hang in there and that she’d be by my side at the hospital by noon on Tues (the next day) once she got back in town. 7 hours later at 6AM I got a text saying we were through. No explanation whatsoever and she refused to answer her phone or respond to my texts when I asked her why she was breaking up with me. Anyway over the course of the next couple weeks she did text me telling me she broke up with me bc I had sounded weird on the phone while I was working in AZ. This didn’t make any sense to me as I literally only worked, ate and slept while I was out there. Finally, 3 weeks after she broke up with me I talked to our landlord/ my acquaintance who had been dating her twin sister, Amy. He let me know that the day after I left for AZ her ex-boyfriend Rod Zeune (a convicted felon for cocaine distribution and check fraud) and his friend came to our house at the time. Abby and Amy told him it was their cousin and his friend. He believed this until the following day when he let himself into the house to check the sub pump in the basement and caught Abby (my fiancé) and Rod having sex in the living room on the couch. He also noticed small amounts of white powder on the counter top and many empty pill bottles lying around the house. [I had known about Abby’s past with drugs and about her ex Rod who I knew was a felon and had beat her. However, she had assured me at the beginning of our relationship that she was through with him and through with coke and heroin.] At this point our landlord knew it wasn’t her cousin and figured it was her ex Rod Zeune so he looked up his rap sheet off the internet and realized that yes indeed that was who she was having sex with. Rod stayed out there at our house having sex with her the rest of that week and then she flew down to Florida with him over the weekend. She flew back on the following Tues to work three days and then on Fri she flew back down to Florida with him again until Tuesday 4/11/17 . The Tues that she was supposed to be coming back from NC after visiting her relatives. That entire time she was pathologically lying to me telling me she loved me and missed me while she was having sex with Rod, flying to his apt in FL and doing drugs with him. Abby had been telling me ‘I love you sooo much’, ‘hang on til Tuesday’, and how much she missed me the entire time she was cheating on me with him which began immediately after I left. She also continued to tell me complex lies about where she was and what she was doing including the crazy lie about going to NC to visit her aunt and grandfather when she was really in FL with Rod. The reason she told me all that and strung me along was bc she wanted to keep her options open until that Tues in case Rod beat her again or for whatever reason it didn’t work out with the two of them. She then would have came back to me and more than likely I never would have known about all the cheating and would have ended up marrying the drug abusing cheater. And thinking back on it she has pressured me into the engagement and told me prior to that that Rod never looked at her the way I did and that he wouldn’t ask her to marry him. She was using the fact that’s he was now engaged as leverage to get him back as she was about to be married. Thank god she chose him!! I have to believe now that she was cheating on me throughout our entire relationship whenever I went out of town. When I confronted her with the information from the landlord she knew she was caught and simply texted that ‘sometimes things in life don’t go as planned’ and then let me know that Rod is moving out to Columbus, OH and told me ‘I better watch out.’ She feels absolutely no guilt whatsoever. At the end of the day it hurts like hell but at least I have closure. Day by day I find out more lies that she told me from mutual friends. And truth be told the girl I was engaged to never existed as it was all a facade!